One other thing (you have me all fired up) -- after our second was born I got very passive aggressive about the lack of sex and decided to "test" how long W would go before she would initiate. I ended up waiting for 16 months before I couldn't take it any more. W never even noticed. I confronted her about my experiment at one point and she denied it, I still don't think she believes it. Not even on her radar.

Accuray


Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015