Hey Lost,

I understand the feeling.

I think all of this can be boiled down to a few points as long as the two people involved really care about each other.

Time.
Using it productively, or not using it productively. That's mainly MLC and Newcomers, a little Piecing though.

Communication.
Productive or not productive.
More in SSM and Piecing.

Are you both talking...and more importantly listening to each other? When sex wanes, are you sullen and believing she should know better?

Cause, that right there is passive aggresive and I don't know many chicks who find that attractive.

It is all in how you broach and approach her about it.

This is a marriage it is a hand's on approach. You're involved, so be involved.

This is all about communicating and finding a way for both of you to appreciate and meet each others wants.


Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet