Wendy is also the 5th Asian woman in a row to reject you, at least 4 of whom also shared your W's profession.
W: Asian social worker CB: Asian social profession unknown MM: Asian social worker Office acquaintance: Asian social worker Wendy: Asian social worker
Let's see, who else have you approached or dated? Um, as far as I know, NO ONE.
If you can't see that this pattern is all about STBX and not letting go and trying to prove that you were right and good enough, I'm not sure what you think it is about. You have been *very* off on your assessment of each of these women's interest in you. So, the idea you have that you are good at understanding culturally asian women is false. If I were one of them, I'd find your dating history pretty darn creepy by this point.
What is the problem with the embalmer? She seems to have the virtue of not being like STBX. If your only objection is her job, I'd think again. I think many in that line of work think of it as a caring enterprise. Perhaps you could watch a few episodes of Family Plots: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Family_Plots, or read some Funeral Girl blogs: http://thefuneralgirl.com/.
Take a real chance and move more forward and less sideways.
