Lydia:

Sorry you are on this boat. But you have come to the right place to get help.

Quote:
I think most men would not want a woman like me. 45, 3 kids still at home. Very busy being a mother.


First off, stop saying that to yourself. The day you lose confidence and respect for yourself is the day you will good to no one. Not even to your kids.

Seems like you have been extremely co-dependent. It is time to break out of that cycle and live life first on your own terms.

respect yourself first and others will too smile

Take care.


BITS
M 38
W 36
D 7
Married 15 yrs
W left for 6 months in 2009
W Filed for D 01/03/11
piecing now...