Sorry about that. Sometimes the ones we find the most attractive don't find us attractive to them. It happens to everyone.
I agree with OT - something to consider.
Josh could not be less like Ex. He was not the picture I conjured up when I thought of my perfect guy yet when I met him - he was just what was perfect for me.
I like Wendy. I like her honesty. I think it was a good first time for both of you and that's what it is all about.
And there was no "dumping" involved. You were not an item. You met an interesting person and shared a coffee. Keep all your options open and keep "meeting".