Advice from successful DB'rs?

[gunny]

Hello Perseverance,
Sorry to hear about your sitch, but things may not be as bleak as you sometimes think. Your w sounds confused and hurting, you will have time to sort things out when you get back,

In some ways you are in a better sitch then some of us who started ours sitchs living with our w's every day. You are being given the gift of time and space, you can work on yourself a little before you get home, and your wife will have some time to work on herself. When you do get together after deployment, hopefully some of the raw emotions will have disipated by then.

While you are away from her, start reading up on some of the stories of those who have been DBING for a while. There is a great deal of knoledge and experience on this board, take advantage of it.

Thank you for your service, come home safe!
Semper Fidelis!