One other thing, last night, he slept with his arm wrapped around my are all night. When one of use would move, he would reposition his arm/hand to touch me all night. That had gone away for a week or two, but now it's back.
Incidentally, I was ready to kill him on Saturday. Thankfully my DBing kicked in before I did rip his face off. What worked, just venting off to my sis in law, finding out that his family is LIVID with his interaction with this parasite. His brother who usually says very little can't even stand to be in the same room with him at the moment.
I reminded my sis in law that I need them to not push him "away" too far. I'm trying to employ the concept of: the more you resist their interaction, the more they'll want it. Take away the taboo, take away the resistance and suddenly, they don't have a common "cause" to be together, because nobody gives a crap, if you know what I"m saying.
T:22, M:20 H:55 Me:45 H-OW PA: N/07 OW Jan08 Bomb:Feb/08 S: Apr/08 Back together Ap1/09-Sept/11 Oct, 2011, uncertain future/H is a mess. Dec/11 - Doin'friend mode. Some days are better than others.