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I wish she would juat realize i have changed for the better and kick the trash to the curb.


It won't happen that easily. Besides, you've got to make those changes become life-long behavior patterns. Any quick-fix method will not work.

When I asked you what your goals were, you answered with this:

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My goals are to keep fighting for my marriage. I have been going to the gym for myself to lose weight which I am doing.


The second part of that was fine, but the first part needs to be broken down into smaller, attainable goals.

Can you list the changes you've made for the better that you want your W to see?

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!