I guess I've posted a lot. When I started this thing, like I mentioned in some previous threads, I felt like it was a 50 yard dash. My W was on the fast track for D. Her target date was yesterday. It's been over 10 months now since the bomb. So if you're a newbie at this, there's always a strong possibility you have more time than you think you have.
Also, take this as an opportunity to take a deep look inside yourself. This is your chance to really discover the person you are and who you're meant to be. At least that's the way it's been for me. I can say I have made a considerable amount of changes that I'm very happy with. I've had the opportunity to do a lot of amazing things I probably never would have done had it not been for this time of trial.
For me, it's been a great opportunity to get closer to God. I have been blessed in so many ways even, or should I say especially, in this storm. My faith has grown tremendously through this experience.
I have met a lot of amazing people on this message board and otherwise through this experience. I have gotten a lot of support from all of you out there and I will be forever grateful.
Well, I'm still here after all this time, and I still fighting, still DB'ing. As a matter of fact, DB'ing has just become a way of life. Most of all, I'm on the mission to become my best possible self. I am continuing to look for ways to try to make lemonade out of all these lemons I've been dealt.
When I started this thing, like I mentioned in some previous threads, I felt like it was a 50 yard dash. My W was on the fast track for D. Her target date was yesterday. It's been over 10 months now since the bomb. So if you're a newbie at this, there's always a strong possibility you have more time than you think you have. 
