Yeah, that is how ive been handling that...it happens quite a bit but last night i decided to do a 180 for me..knowing H wouldnt even know. I didnt can my plans like i alwats do, but i wont do this all the time..S14 is my first priority.
I had to go pick him up this morning and H had left some paperwork from the house sell that i needed to sign. Next to them, on the counter was a list of addresses of rentals hes been looking at. By one address there was a note "to close to W".. that kinda hurt my feelings..why would it be to close?.. its not like i stalk him, and what would be wrong being close to his son?...
Today he was still texting for things that he really didnt need to, and if it didnt call for a reply i didnt..
Looking forward to this week off for fall break but still wondering about thanksgiving..
C had asked a few weeks back if H could spend thanksgiving with us, i was kind of put on the spot and didnt say much, H said that was something he would have to think about. To be honest..i think S28 would kill him..he knows about OW and has not spoken to him since he found out..he gets irrate when ever H comes up. So not thinking its a good idea, H has no family in state so hes on his iwn..which, according to him is what he wants..hope OW can cook...
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Me:48 H:42
M: 18 yrs.
S: 9/1/09 due to alcoholic H
D bomb: 9/9/11
OW confirmed 10/30/11
D papers filed 11/01/11
S15 S21(Special needs) S28

Look to yourself, It is there that all your answers are found...