My ex does not respond well to pressure, but time will tell. There really is no reason for ex to marry her, no benefit for him. She lives with him, cooks for him, gives him sex, cleans, works for him, etc.... He just wanted "to have fun". Now he has to make a big decision. I think the only thing he is thinking is if he marries her and it does not work out, he will have to pay maintenence and go through another divorce. Ex even makes her pay some of the house bills and has not put her name on the house title/mortgage. They are using each other and now she wants a committment. The same thing he ran away from.....
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
