Oh, Peter. I'm SO sorry about this. Wow. You are right in putting D's to bed and reading to them. Be their rock -- W is likely to be even more 'all over the place' for a while right now.
Don't know if once it all sinks in you will want to save the M, but Peter, you are absolutely going to keep DBing to save YOU and to be there and strong for the girls.
Again, I'm sorry to hear this sort of thing. I have no idea how people do such callous things to each other. You are right to not say anything. Hold your cards close.....WAS can go off like loose cannons. Take care. I will think of you.
Me (f): 45 W(f) 35 T: 13 y C: S4 adopted at birth 6-18-11 bomb: I want to break up 8-28-11 OW confirmed