Thanks dbmod, In addition to those activities...I have appts scheduled with an IC to discuss everything, including possible meds for anxiety/depression. Working on 180s...to become more patient & more outgoing, optimistic & no more sarcasm. Her IC said that if she (W) can't forsee a resolution at this time to our problems, then she should plan to seperate & get divorced! She also told my wife that if I insisted on MC...All my W needs to say on the first appt is that the M isn't salvageable... & the MC shouldn't schedule any appts after that!? After 17 yrs... & both of us admit that most of those years were incredible, just the last few have been rough.
(F.K.A. Broken422)
US 40's M 17,T 19 2 BOYS 13,16 Divorced 4/2012 11/2011 W SAID SHE WANTS D
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