PA - Confirmed - Blinkers are off.

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Starting a new thread.

The previous one is located Here

PA is confirmed - and I now know it's been going on a year.

I've thought of nothing else all day - in the past I never thought my W was capable of having a one night stand never mind having a PA for over a year.

Saw a text where she mentions OM has broken it off and she is devestated. She doesn't know that I have confirmation of a PA though she does know I have strong suspicions.

I really don't know what to think at this stage. I'm no longer sure I want to stay M - the whole thing is just surreal.

W came home from work this evening and is miserable - she snapped at the girls and is already on her 3rd glass of wine.
I read stories and put D9 & D6 and put them to bed. I'll let her wallow in her misery.

I am glad it's over - it may be an awakening she needs, though it may be too late to save our M. I'd always assumed this was an EA that may have recently turned into a PA.

I won't say anything unless the D is pushed through and then I'll present what I know to my L to see if it impacts alimony.

I'll keep DBing for myself and my girls - I know I am to blame for 50% of this, but she made the decision not to work on anything and fall into the arms of another man. The whole irony of it is that he's 10 years younger than her, and the girl he is seeing is 10 years younger than him. What goes around comeas around....