Thanks from me as well for your service. Believe me, some of us understand that freedom isn't free!!!!! I am SOOOOOOO sorry you are having to deal with this while at war for us. ((((HUGS))))
THe advice you get here is great --- but the best thing about this board is the sense of support and community. Post often and we will be here with you through the ride. The DB coaching is really helpful, and it does make you feel empowered, versus at the mercy of the WAS.
Take care, and post any specifics so the old timers here can help you out!!
Me (f): 45 W(f) 35 T: 13 y C: S4 adopted at birth 6-18-11 bomb: I want to break up 8-28-11 OW confirmed