Any more feedback? I would love to know what she is thinking about now? No one here can really tell you that--it's speculation--mindreading at best
In my dreams she is having 2nd thoughts.Talks about L/mediators ...then this?Rec'd an email that said "Truthfully, you sound good, like you're much healthier emotionally and mentally. That makes me happier than you could ever know." & ended it with Love (W)..which I haven't seen a long time.Her last email was ALL very business-like (not mean...just not as warm as the last( car repairs etc). Is there any way to delay the visit to the attorney/mediator without causing more friction? yes, just gather information
Do I just give up everything?I haven't brought up anything about R or MC since she dropped the Dbomb on me. Can't wait to get out of Afghanistan....very soon I'll be home. I've planned some great things to do with my kids...and starting snowboarding and yoga. Those are excellent things that let you center on you and something other than the issues, and can calm you. Be aware, they can distract you from working on your issues as well so be clear about your goals.[color:#FF0000[/color]
Should I casually invite my wife to anything, or just wait for her? pay attention to her words, and actions and opportunities, you (and others) don't know the answer to this yet, it depend on what she says and does closer to the opportunities
Her ic seems to be pro-divorce... How Can I be firm about protecting myself during this mediation without coming off as being antagonistic?What are the specifics? Onsizefits all comments will not work.
Still giving her space Women in general don't want space, they just don't want you to be desperate. , working on 180& setting gal plans. Sorry if I ramble- so many thoughts in my spinning head
