Ups and downs. H was susposed to come in the morning on thankgiving to be w/ S while I went to work and the I would take him the second half of the day. Well, he changed his mind and said to send him to the sitter and he would pick him up at 11. ( i work at 5am right now) I'm so disapointed in him. Making our baby spend thanksgiving at a sitters house b/c he dosnt want to get up early. Also, he called wanting to know when the divorce is susposed to be finalized. I told him he should have recieved a letter stateing the date was dec. 5th. He flew off the hanle saying he never got a letter and that wasnt soon enough. I should have been the end of nov. I asked him what the difference was and he said just b/c. ???? Whats going to change? We r allready living sep. lives.He said he wants to be done with it and everything will change once its official. What is that about??? Think he's planning on revieling a gf or something??