Yes, we met with the divorce mediation attorney today. In and out in 15 minutes. She said we were married for the wrong reasons.
Really? It took you 10 years to come to that conclusion? And you just happened to figure this out at the same time you were in your EA?
But I said nothing, just agreed that we agreed to divorce. Now it's just paperwork & signatures, wait 90 days and poof! another marriage vanishes into thin air.
After the meeting W came over to the house to retrieve her half of the Christmas decorations. That was difficult, but we got through it amicably. As she was leaving she gave me a long hug and started crying. Before, that would have really gotten to me. Today, I felt absolutely nothing.
I think the detachment is nearly complete.
Telemark--
What do you really want? It doesn't matter at all what the reasons you married for so many years ago--your C is missing the mark. What do you want NOW?
I 'hear' you are detached, but that is often just numbness. Detachment can be overrated. What are you 'in' for?
