JB said: I am just trying to walk that tightrope between keeping the road home paved and smooth and allowing her to miss me. Adding to her ammunition to walk away versus showing her unconditional love.
yes, this is SO hard=== ROMB concurs (as i'm sure MWD would as well...lol) When they make their proverbial beds, all we can do is what YOU always do so eloquently..... show kindness-- act, not react, and take care of the collateral damage (in our cases, S) You show so much courage, tolerance, and kindness on a daily basis. If the road home for your W isn't paved smooth, nobody's is. Keep up the good work. You are balancing the tightrope well.
Hugs and even prayers
Me (f): 45 W(f) 35 T: 13 y C: S4 adopted at birth 6-18-11 bomb: I want to break up 8-28-11 OW confirmed
