25 we are saying the same thing, although I definitely felt the long term EA would be worse than a one night PA, and the worst of all would be a long term EA that went PA.

Looked into Retrouvaille, there's one here in January. W won't go, but it does look good.

Accuray

Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015