Telemark, I hate hearing the that excuse. However, I think you're correct - it is absolutely 100% correct in her mind. In her mind, life under the big top is the way to go over what she previously had. At least that's the way it is in her mind NOW.
By contrast, you have improved your own life. You have learned from your mistakes. You have become a much better man. You will be an excellent catch and you will now attract the right kind of woman you want to attract.
