TM you are handling this so well....but I can feel the pain as i read your words. I'm thinking of you. This time of year is going to be especially hard for so many of us who have found this terrible but awesome community.

I am sending you big big big hugs. (and moderation without a warning first? TM has been here a long time!)

Me (f): 45
W(f) 35
T: 13 y
C: S4 adopted at birth
6-18-11 bomb: I want to break up
8-28-11 OW confirmed