I learned 2 things from my 1st M

1. I was way too young to get married

And

2. We were kids trying to play adults

These days when I hear couples are marrying at 21,22,23 I think to myself, why? The divorce rate is high enough as it is, but you throw immaturity into the mix and it's almost certain to not end well.
Yes, compared to being 16 being in your 20's is a lot more mature, but there is still a lot of growing up to do.

I know there are exceptions to every rule and not everyone will agree with me. I think had exh#1 & I gotten married later on in life, we probably would have had a better chance of making it work.


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