AJM,

Yes, OW absolutely knows what he did to the family. Your statements are so true. She has to be very worried. I guess the saying "there is no peace for the wicked" pertains.
This encounter was the first time I really got to see her insecurities. I will not avoid her any more and if I run into her I run into her. She looked very afraid of me and I guess I have to admit I got some satisfaction from that. I also was happy with how I handled the whole situation. I really just wanted to rip her face off.

I will continue to be pleasant to ex despite his button pushing for whatever reason. It does not matter. My kids saw me in a very difficult situation and saw me handle it maturely. That is something they will remember when ex is bad mouthing me.

By the way, I love your strength.....


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11