Yes, OW absolutely knows what he did to the family. Your statements are so true. She has to be very worried. I guess the saying "there is no peace for the wicked" pertains. This encounter was the first time I really got to see her insecurities. I will not avoid her any more and if I run into her I run into her. She looked very afraid of me and I guess I have to admit I got some satisfaction from that. I also was happy with how I handled the whole situation. I really just wanted to rip her face off.
I will continue to be pleasant to ex despite his button pushing for whatever reason. It does not matter. My kids saw me in a very difficult situation and saw me handle it maturely. That is something they will remember when ex is bad mouthing me.
By the way, I love your strength.....
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11