It is great that he is initiating spending time. You are on the right track -- i will say that again. PERFECT work in not saying anything about the snooping. The one time I snooped, I saw texts that made me want to poke my eyes out --- and I never mentioned it, but I never did it again!!!!

Getting sep. phone accounts -- very good idea-- but for some reason hard, at least for me. It seems kind of, I don't know... final? No ? That's why I'm STILL without a cell phone right now. My phone died --- and I am supposed to go start my own account separate from W's. I havent been able to make myself take that step this week..... I know it's the right thing to do, but....

Anyway, like DG says-- no expectations!! Roll with it. That seems to be what u are doing. As soon as I find the courage to get a new phone account, u will be first to know wink


Me (f): 45
W(f) 35
T: 13 y
C: S4 adopted at birth
6-18-11 bomb: I want to break up
8-28-11 OW confirmed