Sorry you are going throughout this Peter. I think our Ws know how we feel we need to let them go through their own pain. I think this accomplished by giving them space so they can face the reality of what they are doing and the consequences. I think if we keep reminding them of their actions we become the focus and the wall goes up again. I am keeping busy so I don't obssess over my sitch that helps me feel ok. Hang in there


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden