Sorry you are going throughout this Peter. I think our Ws know how we feel we need to let them go through their own pain. I think this accomplished by giving them space so they can face the reality of what they are doing and the consequences. I think if we keep reminding them of their actions we become the focus and the wall goes up again. I am keeping busy so I don't obssess over my sitch that helps me feel ok. Hang in there
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”