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I agree with the others

Keeping a friendly connection with XH is nice
maybe move back a few seats, be a little mysterious and unavailable but cordial and friendly from a more distant stance

I also agree that in my relationships today, I would like to be able to be authentic..but I realize this MLC--is a tricky situation where one can not be open and genuine and realize that NO true relationship can be based on this ,so you can decide where and how much you want toput into it at this point..and as you step back and moew into your life, you may be affected less
this stage he is in could last a while..and sometimes the EA comes back to xw, but is that what you want because it will also keep you connected and not free to more forward
It is up to you
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow