I do think this is the trickiest part of DBing, that is figuring out the line between being a doormat and not pushing the WAS further away. I still think in this situation in particular, it's a great way to show her the reality of a D. Then again, we're talking about the same person who thought it was no big deal to ask you to move to another town...
I dunno, JB, when I think about her recent actions, do you think its maybe time to change your strategy a little? What does your DB coach say?
