The first chapter I suppose

[mindfull]

Autumn.

Your H was the one to offer the possibility of meeting up after drinks w/girlfriends, and his Happy Hour...

So, you were not wrong to being up the fact that you didn't hear from him...

Now, i know we hear only one side of this, but His anger was entirely inappropriate.

If it happened, as described, there lies your boundary...

His anger 'could' have been @ being questioned, it 'could' have been @ you looking at his phone, or it could have been a mixture, something different.., or the man is just developing into more of an as$.

I'm not so sure I agree w/apologizing to him, but I understand and have been there many times.

There's a boundary issue to deal with...

I can't wait to see what a good MC will say... I just worry that you're putting a band-aid on, where a boundary should be stated.

Again, since I relate to so much of what you're going through... Am I transferring my own woulda/coulda/shoulda onto you? Maybe! But, there was tons of growth from my end.

Hope it helps!

Off to, well... Move/Pack!