She is going to grieve and feel rejected right now. In my experience, this is when WAW is the HARDEST on you. They feel badly about themselves, are coming down off the high of their R, and because of how they've come to view you, you are the best punching bag they have to take out their bad feelings on.
You need to DB more than ever now, and believe absolutely NONE of what she says. You're dealing with an emotionally wounded person who just lost someone she loved. (Ironic isn't it?)
You will get though this if you do NOT make her resent you right now. Try hard!
--Accuray
Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11 Start Reconcile: 8/15/11 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced) In a New Relationship: 3/2015