Tad's EX w is definitely having a crisis. But it's no "mid life" crisis as if exteranl circumstances and some internal clock brought ALL THIS crap out...
I think she's unstable and wacky. That's my "medical" opinion, so it's good I'm not a doctor. She's more extreme than ANY other wife I can recall, and I've been here awhile.
That's all I'm saying. I won't let "MLC" be attached to someone who is that mean for that long AND that crazy...and fwiw
most MLC women don't leave their kids.
They want the h's to leave and "be erased" from the rest of their worlds, as if the h's were never there or a new OM can replace them.
Tad's ex w is also unusual in that respect. She left it all and in a huff,
and did not present the sons with a choice a rational son could choose. IT was an offer NOT built to accept...and then changed and morphed, if I recall it right. (Maybe I am off there but that's how I saw it I think)
And her particular complaints are weirder and more off the wall than most. And she got her divorce!! Enough already. What is there to debate NOW??
Her telling her ex h what she wants her sons (some of whom are adults if I'm not mistaken) what to call any woman he dates or brings into their lives, isn't for her to tell TAD
they will call his OW what they feel like calling her, (if he ever brings one home)
It's not HER place to say anyting about their R's with the women in Tad's life from now on.
She lost that right and, given that SHE has had an OM for some time now, in his face, it's way out of line.
The hypocrisy is just insane. And she continues to see none of it and they seem to fear her so much, it goes on.
So I stand by my comment that she's far beyond the pale of a mere MLC, as wacky as all that can be.
The important point here Tad, is that no matter what "diagnosis" she gets--YOUR TREATMENT is the same
your CURE is the same...
you have to detach or you will remain stuck in stuckville, population: you.
Come on, you deserve better and you know better. So do your sons!
God I hope they learn what NOT to do from the past with you two, and so now teach them what
TO DO! Tad, like I said, you seem more comfortable with the hell you know (and are in) than the
fear of what might be if you simply let go.
That's a really tragic choice to keep making. I wish you could see that.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
