Thank you for your response. It is so good to hear from an old friend. OW just stood behind ex as we talked. She was so uncomfortable and at one point complained to ex about something. That is when he kissed her. Ex was definitely talking to me more than her and that had to be rough on her. Also, my children really don't appear attached to her at all. They both were just hanging on me. It was ackward.... I have been thinking all day about why he tried to make me jealous. I think that was his attempt because he appeared to watch me closely during both attempts. Thanks for the warning about not being detached, I am not detached right now and I need to get back where I use to be.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11