Lots of great advice here, especially from sandi2 and hopeful321. It really helps to hear from the WAW perspective. Chope good luck, I am in the same shoes with a WAW, I know the advice is easier said then done. Every time the W drops our S off or picks him up its feels almost like putting a mask on.
M 33 W 29 S 4 M 5 T 7 11/7/11 Separation, W moves in with parents 12/1/11 W: "IDLY, I'm not coming back, it's over" 1/7/12 D Bomb Dropped