Originally Posted By: Kaffe Diem
Try to read them as though it was someone else... Let me know if there's anything that jumps out at you...

Maybe I'm just not able to step outside myself and read them as if reading about someone else. What strikes me is
(1) I'm very straightforward and maybe a bit argumentative
(2) This forum has settled into a dialogue between me and my unpaid therapist
(3) Your questions mystify me. My most embarrassing experience, beach/symphony/ or coffee shop, and _I'm_ the one who knows how this is connected to my marriage?


M: 43 H: 44 M: 12.5 if the 5.5 year separation counts
Bomb (I dropped it): Dec '07
H said finit: Jun '10
I moved on: May '13