Not sure if I'm naive or in denial or very trusting and sure of myself, but I don't really think there is OM. The only people she really talks to on her phone are her brother and mother. She never made any suspicious plans. The day after she left I did ask her if there was another guy, she quickly answered no, the last thing I want now is a relationship (yeah that hurt me a bit). Could needing space be just needing space? Also as our second counseling session approaches (we are going in separate) is this session the deal breaker? I've talked to a lot of friends (who don't know if my situation) about when they went thru their divorces and the a majority of the ones that went to counseling said after the 2nd session their wives stopped going and divorce was imminent.


M 33
W 29
S 4
M 5
T 7
11/7/11 Separation, W moves in with parents
12/1/11 W: "IDLY, I'm not coming back, it's over"
1/7/12 D Bomb Dropped