So, ow has the taste of an adolescent? Nice decorating with the jar of weed, too! I remember when I was 18, my best friend's brother gave us each a big jar of weed, and we thought we were so cool. We were tuned out for months! Seems stupid now, though.

Yeah, I really think ow's newness is wearing off. Now she doesn't want a baby? I wonder when she will let him know that news. And you are right, H hasn't acted like a man who wants to raise children, so you would still possibly be here one day with a child or two, a single mother. I guess some men take a lot of time to grow up; probably most of them do. No offense to all you men out there!

I think by meeting a guy in Mexico and having a good time, you showed yourself that if you have to, you can move on and have a good R with another man. If it comes to that, which I hope not. I wonder if your H will sense that in you? I am sure a woman puts off a different vibe when something like that happens. As to whether H picks up on it; who knows?

I hope you enjoyed having dinner with your H. Maybe more invites of that sort will happen.

Glad you had fun in Mexico. I went when I was a kid, and I loved it. There's nothing like genuine Mexican food.

vc