WHG some of the things your wAW says seems very manipulative. You need to get of her rollercoasterASAP. Putting dates on these emotional things is abusive in my view. It is like being on death row. Your W like mine think that this will easy and that noone will suffer including them. The reality is that everyone will suffer especially the kids. She faces the same realities when D don't let their determined behavior fool you. In fact man fair better after a D research shows that. Stop worrying about what the future will look like you don't know. If you did you would not be in this sitch, right? Try to have some fun and live a good life we are pulling for you.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”