Sandi I think you are correct because something interesting happened last night. I had a night planned out with some friends to have a few beers. I had to take my S14 to his soccer game where I met up with my W. One of my Ws female friends was there with her D and commented on how she wanted to leave so tongue in cheek I said"you can go with me I'm going out". Well the W heard that and got mad I didn't invite her so I told her she can meet me later to which she said "I'm not your sloppy seconds". Well don't you know my W and her friend end up showing to the place we were at.

So my W and I drive home together and she starts the R talk. I ask her if she is satisfied with what she saw or better yet didn't see. She tries to play innocent and just blurts out "well I don't know when the last time you had sex was". Now I'm lol to myself since I knew why she showed up to where I was at. I felt confident in telling her that the last time was with you and you're the only one I want to do that with. I'm sure that made her feel good. Our conversation was good after that. Got home and went to bed.
Where do we stand? I'm not sure but all in all I think you're post is dead on.


M 44 W 43
S 23 S 15
INILWY 9/11
Divorce Mediation started 3/13
June 30 the day W is moving out