Asilee, Thanks for the support. No I don't think you are too hard or cold. I think he is sick but I would not say sex addict. I think that he is a man without a soul. This is going to be hard because I am not filled with hate and I have many good and fond memories. But that's not enough. I am trying to grasp this situation and I just can't get my hands around it because I don't understand it. I am trying to accept that I may never understand this mess. Thanks so much, Asilee. This board means so much to me. Mare

[This message has been edited by mare (edited 06-11-99).]