Beatrice, Thank you for your response. It was just not normal behavior. If I cheated on my spouse, I would certainly not flaunt and kiss the adulteress in front of the person I cheated on. The whole thing was weird and it really set me back some. I don't know what I was expecting. I just know that I did not show him that it bothered me. Yes, my ex is emotionally delayed. He never was before this though I must say. You sound like you have been going through this a long time also.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11