It took me 2 1/2 years to be able to be strong enough to hear the truth.
In the meantime, I was really owning some of my own issues! And, gaining strength, and re-claiming confidence, and becoming a better MY own person.
I told you. I think I could have kept my marriage intact. (I know now, it wouldn't have been happily, as he doesn't own his own issues.) But, I didn't have the forgiveness in me to deal w/infidelity. And, even if I could have... There were SO many other ways he betrayed our family.
IC sounds like a superb idea. You need, not just an ear, an in -person wisdom.
Off to move more boxes!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
