I'm telling you to gather your data, have a plan, and act on it.
If you don't find out what you're dealing with, you're going to be in the same position I was in FOR TWO AND A HALF YEARS... A moody, jack-as$ husband, coming and going as he pleases, getting his favorite meals, a smiling, cute-haired, nicely manicured, adoring, nicely dressed, swooning wife, darling, polished children, and a spotless home, filled with everything he loves... or should love... At the end of the day, you still have a cheating husband, if the facts were there two and a half years before. (Read and re-read the hundreds of threads here w/the same result.)
Snooping, to me, is constantly re-checking your H's online activity, cc activity, bank statements, etc... AFTER you have found the truth, and moved on with your plan.
Why would you do that? You already know what the truth is, and you're moving on...
The only way to heal personally, and as a couple is confront the truth no matter what it may be.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
