LOL... Yeah 25, I have not completely kicked that. But I truly believe that I am very close to being in a place that I have internalized that I will be happy regardless of how my situation turns out. If things go south again, I know what I will need to do at that point for my own happiness and well being. Knowing that gives me strength...

I have stayed away from the boards bc I needed to stop being so wrapped up with my marital situation every second of every day. It became like a drug and had become unhealthy for me.

I really do hope to be able to come back here in the near, gotta say it, future, with a success story. I still believe that many marriages can be saved IF even one party works at it and does not give up hope. I also believe that marriages that do survive such horrible times, can come out of it stronger and healthier.

I know that there are probably new people here who are not familiar with my sitch. If you are one of those people, and are reading this, believe that things will get better, regardless of the outcome of your M. Because they will. I have lived and gone through it... well, AM still going through it to some degree.

Take care.

BITS
Denver


M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce