Jack....I do try to fill my time. I work and I have a Photography business that I am trying to get off the ground. I have custody of my nephew that I take care of and I have been doing alot of crafts lately. I visit friends and go out to eat. It seems though that I long to at least speak to me once a day. Its like I need that reassurance that he is there and need to hear someone say I LOVE YOU. My xh use to tell me this daily. Could this be why I need that? Also other than my nephew I have no family around. My nephew and I are spending Thanksgiving alone because my bf cant come home for Thanksgiving adn Christmas. I would rather him come Christmas. Jack you are right. I think he knows I will always be there. The one time in two years that I didnt answer his call or return his text right away he noticed. This was how it went. I was very brief.
Him....Hey I got a new game in the mail today. (hes into gaming) Me....(20 mins later) Cool. Him....I tried to call you last night Me....(15 mins later)Yea I saw that.
Then when he called later I answered. Should I have said more or waited longer? He texted me at 930 the next morning after I didnt answer his call. He has NEVER that I can rem texted me that early in a LONG time.
Kim My bh is MOST CERTAINLY emotionally unavailable. How do I deal with this? It is alot better when we are together because he hugs and kisses me more. I get more attention. Over the phone is where we get distant and he gets less emotional it seems.
AJM.... No that is not the case at all. I would love to be closer to him. We get along so much better together. I think he is scared though.
Guys I love this man. I just hate the long distance thing.
