Is this really an ultra marathon?

[jbnati]

You were right, JB. She's the one who created this new hassle -- she just doesn't want to have to shoulder the inconvenience of it. I've noticed a trend of WAS' wanting to have their new lives with zero headaches, so they start making selfish claims to the LBS. Sadly for them, it doesn't work that way!

Thanks WCF. You're completely right. She has knack for making me feel like a selfish, unhelpful jerk. She's right - I would say she's doing the driving about 90% of the time. However, it's my house where my S catches the bus and it's my house where the bus drops him off after school. I think her inconvenience is really wearing on her and she wants me to bail her out of her responsiblity like I've done in the past.

Great job in not being taken for a ride and remaining calm despite the anger. She may not admit it, but somewhere deep down, she probably knows she's in the wrong.

Thanks. Sometimes my delayed anger works to my advantage. I'm sure you're right.