You were right, JB. She's the one who created this new hassle -- she just doesn't want to have to shoulder the inconvenience of it. I've noticed a trend of WAS' wanting to have their new lives with zero headaches, so they start making selfish claims to the LBS. Sadly for them, it doesn't work that way!

Great job in not being taken for a ride and remaining calm despite the anger. She may not admit it, but somewhere deep down, she probably knows she's in the wrong.


Us: mid-20s
T: 5.5 yrs
M: 2 yrs
S + OM: 6/21/11
Legally S'd: 9/9/11

In this life, you have a limited amount of mental currency. You get what you pay for, so spend it wisely.

So it goes. --Kurt Vonnegut