it is a very hard question witz, some can't move beyond that and even they get back together the knowledge festers inside. Do see an IC, just for you... you must truly forgive her in order to keep trying to work this out, and she must be repentant and want to be with you, right now she is in la-la land, amazing how the A blinds people to all reason, the kids, family, future, don't matter, it's the fuzzy feeling they feel with their forbiden and new toy. It is truly a shame, I pray you find strenght, and even if you decide you can't have her back do forgive her for yourself, to be able to move forward.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
