Thanks so much for dropping by! I had prayed about it and posted. And whaddya know? lc4 shows up! I unloaded on a friend, too, and that always helps.
I think she was expressing more of a global frustration. TBH, the only time I ever go down to her apartment is when I pick up S for church when it's her weekend and he wants to go to church. She took a new job a couple of months ago and it's no longer on the way for her to pick up S on weeknights - it's out of her way. But - then again, she made the decision to take that job. But you're right - if she makes the decision to move further away and I decide it's not in my best interest or my S's best interest to move, it's going to be a whole lot more inconvenient for her.
I think my anger is reducing to a headache now.
I am going spend some time in the Word, too, and pray about it some more.
It's amazing how these little things bug me, but the bigger things roll off of me like water off a duck's back.