Short answer: good for you. You have to stand up for yourself when necessary. DB is not about being taken advantage of. I think you were in the right. It's her weekend, it's her conflict, let her drive. Let her get a taste of how much driving she will be doing when she makes a move farther away. Personally, and with all due respect, it's your wife I'd like to give a 2x4 to. Big hugs, lc4