A fork in the road - EA admitted by wife

[NYCPeter]

Ok - I give up.

I came home from work and was surprised to see my W home.
She was dressed up to go out (she usually goes to work on Friday nights).
Literally the conversation went like this :
Me - Oh you're not going to work
W - No, why?
Me - Just that you never mentioned anything
W - Do I have to tell you everything?
Me - No, just would have thought you would have said something
W - Well I don't have to tell you anything, you didn't tell me you had meetings when we were supposed to meet the mediator
Me - The meetings weren't scheduled until after the appointment was made.
W - That's what you say.
Me - It's true
W - Well I'm going out

She left - I really didn't raise my voice or act in an irrational way. I also found out from a friend that she told his wife that she "hates weekends" because I am around the house.

I really don't know what's caused this behavior - I'm not the one having an affair - maybe she realizes the hotel invoice is missing, I don't know. At the end of the day - despite 180s, despite GAL (ok minimal) - she seems to hate me more than ever.

I think the ending to this one is pretty inevitable.